Tuesday, March 25, 2008

The answer to yesterday

The answer is you do nothing drastic. You talk to your guy even if you are afraid to. He might be offended but try to keep calm and NOT be crazy. I am not sure how well I did that, probably not the greatest knowing my history but don't yell, don't explode on him coz he had a hard day too. If you are lucky, he might reassure you in some fashion. Either way it has to be satisfactory and there shall be no unreasonable demands. It is not a right.

Mostly you just needed to communicate how you felt to the one that matters most and as long as you keep somewhat calm when discuss the matter, it will probably all be okay in the end.

Sometimes your mind concocts some crazy things* and even though you try your best to ignore and push it away, it just doesn't disappear. If it needs to get out, let it out in the healthiest way possible.

* For instance, a disturbing & unpleasant nightmare

Monday, March 24, 2008

What a dilemma?!

How do you stop your beau's ex('s), especially the one who currently lives with you both because she has no place to stay and no $, from telling him "i love u always" behind your back? You know she txts him all the time and fine it's "none of your business". Exactly what it is, u can only guess but it's a gf's intuition and feel for her man's reaction to know where certain communiques come from. Now, after meeting and knowing her better because she is so close, u just know she is doing it or saying exact things like that. Call it women's intuition, call it 6th sense, even if they denied it, u just know!

What the hell do you do? Honestly, what?!

Friday, March 14, 2008


You know how sometimes old friends find you online and ask for your phone #...and then you regret it but think well, it's not so bad. Then less than 15 minutes after you gave them your # they call you in the middle of a work day. And when you say hey I'm working in the middle of something and they say what time do you get off work? Now you're really hating yourself for doing it...